She’s stopped bleeding, which is wonderful, but we had an abrupt exit from hospital, before most test results had come in and we still don’t know what happened. We’re booked to follow up with our GP.
I’m eyeball deep in the post talk slump. Amplified by arguments with the hospital staff, trying to get a handle on my business admin, long nights awake with Poppy, and a very stressed Star.
Head down, teeth gritted, as much sleep and self care as possible. Lower expectations, lots of grace, be in the present moment and find calm when you can. Try not to run out of money, meds, patience, or humour. Don’t just react, reflect first. Make a decision and feel it out. Fall over and get up again. Hug someone. Eat something. Get out of your head and into a book or film. Stand in the night and watch the moon. Cry about it. Laugh about it. Write about it. Forget about it.
Yesterday while we waited endlessly for a doctor to give us some information about Rose, I had to go and move our car so we didn’t get a ticket. The hospital is new, large, and extremely confusing to navigate. I wound up stuck in the underground staff carpark and ran the length of it out onto the nearby main road before I could find my way back to our car and then up to Rose again. I arrived exhausted just as the doctor left, and burst into tears. The staff looked at us indifferently while I sobbed in the corridor, because just a few hours before I had been holding Rose as she vomited so violently she passed out and fitted, and now she was being sent home with no answers and I was scared.
Then I finished crying and ate some carrot sticks and we got out of there. Life is weird. Hospitals are weird. People are weird.
I am restraining myself from setting fire to my business, particularly all the admin, the email backlog, the confusing filing system, and the memory of my own excitement and enthusiasm.
Stupid post talk slump.
On the upside I sold some art today, which is always nice. Rose is tired but still here and we’re okay.
2 thoughts on “Rose is home”
being lost is hard. I am not surprised you were exhausted. glad rose is ok, and well. xx
Getting lost is still a hard trigger for me. I hate crying, but i found that allowing myself to cry can help avoid a switch. It’s hard to cry anywhere but my own home, but bathroom stalls offer a bit of protection/privacy. I’m catching up on your blog backwards, so it doesn’t seem too out of place when i offer my high hopes and best wishes for Rose’s full and swift return to health.