Recently, I sat in an office and unraveled a complex dilemma.
The woman sitting with me responded, saying “What I’m hearing
is that you are trying to find a way to engage health
without colluding with those who have oppressed you,
and without contributing to the oppression of others.”
I blinked and then
Yes. Yes that’s what I’ve been trying
To put into words the last 10 years.
My refusal to cut the tie
That binds me to the common humanity
Of the most irrelevant and destitute because
They are me.
When I manage to find a door
Through the insurmountable obstacle
I try to leave it open
This blog has been my public road map
Not as a set of instructions or moral imperatives
Or proof of my superiority in some way
No more no less than an honest account of how and where
I found the doors
And the courage to walk through them.
The times I succeeded and the ones I failed.
In honest truth telling, I believe we are set free.
You are skilled, she said
At behaving ethically despite being outcast
You are afraid and uncomfortable of the challenge
Of doing so when you are embraced and approved of.
All the long years, trying to get in to the town
The truth is I’m also terrified of it
And run back to the wilds, alone but free.
This is about oppression, she said, and power.
My teeth lengthened in my smile
And I promised
To write and paint
The unspeakable things again.
To hold fast to the light burning
To speak my name with blood, pride, and dark joy.
To break the invisible all powerful rules
For me and all my kind.